First up. I am a bitch. I never pretended to be otherwise. J-Blo seriously pissed me off. I agree that my response wasn't the best idea hence my apology and hence Sonia's smack down. Whether Sonia kicks me off the list is up to her, my post was made with the clear knowledge that this might happen. Hence the apology at the bottom when I posted.
Second. I actually think its far worse to snipe and bitch about someone behind their back. The woman knows I dislike her, I don't hide it. I actualy think its better to respond on list and get it out of my system then snipe in LJ or on private lists or to flame her in private mail. That way there is no pretence. J-Blo has personally insulted and annoyed the fuck out of me both on and off list. I lost the plot a bit. End of story.
Thirdly. How the fuck can I be a BNF when I've not contributed one bloody thing to the HL universe apart from daftness. I would like to think that people talk and respond to me and my posts because they enjoy the repartee and maybe like my company. Not because I have some sort of wanky fandom status. Not only that I could not give a *flying fuck* about making a *name* for myself in fandom. I do this for fun not because I require my ego massaged. I'd do it whether anyone responded to me or not.
Fourthly. I don't not care whether anyone thinks my behaviour is out of order and that includes you T. I don't limit my responses on list or off, in RL or on the internet because of fear of what people may think. I'm honest and sometimes that makes me rude. If people don't like me for that then they don't like me for it.
Fifthly. I don't actually consider my post on ODM that flamey. Its a bit too personal in places which is my bad but I would also be seriously interested in hearing J-Blo's responses to some of the points raised. As someone who has spent a large part of their life fighting gender roles for real I found her comments to be *unbelievably* insulting and naive. Alot of my response wasn't meant to be sarcastic.
Sixthly. Its far more insulting to state someone has mental instablity based on their posts then to call them stupid.
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Re: Actually I think J-Blo is meaning to be offensive..
First up. I am a bitch. I never pretended to be otherwise. J-Blo seriously pissed me off. I agree that my response wasn't the best idea hence my apology and hence Sonia's smack down. Whether Sonia kicks me off the list is up to her, my post was made with the clear knowledge that this might happen. Hence the apology at the bottom when I posted.
Second. I actually think its far worse to snipe and bitch about someone behind their back. The woman knows I dislike her, I don't hide it. I actualy think its better to respond on list and get it out of my system then snipe in LJ or on private lists or to flame her in private mail. That way there is no pretence. J-Blo has personally insulted and annoyed the fuck out of me both on and off list. I lost the plot a bit. End of story.
Thirdly. How the fuck can I be a BNF when I've not contributed one bloody thing to the HL universe apart from daftness. I would like to think that people talk and respond to me and my posts because they enjoy the repartee and maybe like my company. Not because I have some sort of wanky fandom status. Not only that I could not give a *flying fuck* about making a *name* for myself in fandom. I do this for fun not because I require my ego massaged. I'd do it whether anyone responded to me or not.
Fourthly. I don't not care whether anyone thinks my behaviour is out of order and that includes you T. I don't limit my responses on list or off, in RL or on the internet because of fear of what people may think. I'm honest and sometimes that makes me rude. If people don't like me for that then they don't like me for it.
Fifthly. I don't actually consider my post on ODM that flamey. Its a bit too personal in places which is my bad but I would also be seriously interested in hearing J-Blo's responses to some of the points raised. As someone who has spent a large part of their life fighting gender roles for real I found her comments to be *unbelievably* insulting and naive. Alot of my response wasn't meant to be sarcastic.
Sixthly. Its far more insulting to state someone has mental instablity based on their posts then to call them stupid.