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Okay people, this has been prompted by a number of conversations I seem to have had recently.
*1* How do you deal with educating your partner in your sexual needs?
*2* How do you go about finding out if your partner is enjoying themselves or enjoying what you are doing?
*3* Would you be offended if your partner made suggestions on how to improve your sexual relationship?
I'd love some input here from all of you *pokes f-list* because it seems like information which is just not shared enough.
Personally I have little to no embarrassment threshold when it comes to discussing sex or what turns me on. Anyone who knows me personally, knows this. *grins* I am, however, aware that I am somewhat in the minority when it comes to this and also that at times that can be a bit intimidating.
Communication between sexual partners on what they want/don't want seems to be an area fraught with problems and emotional land mines. I really, strongly feel that this is something people can help everyone with by discussing openly.
So, I declare open season. Answer my 3 questions and then feel free to ask anything else you want. Let's broaden each other's minds and swop some tips!
*1* How do you deal with educating your partner in your sexual needs?
*2* How do you go about finding out if your partner is enjoying themselves or enjoying what you are doing?
*3* Would you be offended if your partner made suggestions on how to improve your sexual relationship?
I'd love some input here from all of you *pokes f-list* because it seems like information which is just not shared enough.
Personally I have little to no embarrassment threshold when it comes to discussing sex or what turns me on. Anyone who knows me personally, knows this. *grins* I am, however, aware that I am somewhat in the minority when it comes to this and also that at times that can be a bit intimidating.
Communication between sexual partners on what they want/don't want seems to be an area fraught with problems and emotional land mines. I really, strongly feel that this is something people can help everyone with by discussing openly.
So, I declare open season. Answer my 3 questions and then feel free to ask anything else you want. Let's broaden each other's minds and swop some tips!
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ok heres my answers... with an extra question thrown in!
1* How do you deal with educating your partner in your sexual needs?
I talk to him. Tell him what is good/not good.
*2* How do you go about finding out if your partner is enjoying themselves or enjoying what you are doing?
I ask him. If im doing it wrong, i gotta know!
*3* Would you be offended if your partner made suggestions on how to improve your sexual relationship?
Nope... communication in all things, including sex.
now, my question.. i have Lichen Sclerosis, which is pretty horrible... and trying to find a way to tell the other half whats good and not good doesnt always work... so sometimes im in alot of pain. Just how does anyone out there deal with this. Oh btw, ls is a non sexual skin disease in that area! (just so you know ) Cheryl X